Bonpa has had some health issues in the past.
He was diagnosed with lung cancer about 3 weeks ago. They said he had 3 weeks to live and he died 2 weeks after that (last Saturday). He lost body functions quickly. I think he waited for all of his children to arrive and say goodbye.
tears
He was such a wonderful man, great father and husband, it's sad to see him go.
But we know he is in a better place now, and without pain or shame.
He's where he would want to be,
at the foot of the Lord whom he served.
I want to be like my
Bonpa,
always loving, always
asking the important questions, and
making a joke. He served in prison ministry well into his 80's.
He held his wife's hand until his dying day.
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| photo by Michelle Young ---www.endearingstudios.com |
This is how I will remember him, squeezing my shoulders firmly, but gently, looking into my eyes
with a a slight squint, real smile, and a hint of a laugh.
I will fly out tonight: To Iceland, then the Netherlands.
I will take a train to Belgium on Friday when I arrive.
I will see all my sweet relatives.
I will miss my darling husband.
I will cry.
I will not wear black, because Bonpa didn't want us to.
I will tear up because he wanted bright colors to represent life.
I will celebrate a life well lived, a race well run, a legacy left for me and my descendants.